为何我不能做你女友，你说爱我且我倾慕于你

I'm sorry, but I don't think I'm ready to commit to a relationship right now. It's not because I don't love you or don't think you're smart - quite the opposite, in fact. It's because I feel like I need to take some time for myself and focus on my own growth before taking on the responsibility of being in a committed relationship.